Accepting Personal Bitch Applications

Accepting Personal Bitch Applications

By MistressLolaRuin September 24, 2015

Manchester Dominatrix Mistress Tameside

I know I have spent years telling some of you miscreants to look out for this blog post, and now the time has finally come...

I am looking to recruit at least one personal bitch (possibly more depending on the calibre of replies I get) to assist with the day to day running of My increasingly hectic lifestyle.

Putting My feet up...

Putting My feet up whilst YOU slave away for Me...

For those of you who admire Me from afar but do not have the monetary funds to book a session, this is a rare and unique opportunity to build a D/s connection with Me in return for being useful to Me.

YOUR DUTIES AS MY BITCH:

Cleaning.
This one is obvious. This will be in My home and possibly dungeon, and will include hoovering, mopping, washing dishes, laundry, polishing, scrubbing and so on.
Chauffeuring
You must hold a license, own a car and be a good driver.
Ad-Hoc Chores
This could include tasks such as administration, promotion, cooking, foot massage, running errands, gardening or DIY tasks.

(Ideally you would be able to perform all these duties, however applications to just serve Me as a cleaning maid or driver are also welcome.)

SUBMISSIVE STIPULATIONS:

References
It is of paramount important you are able to provide references for Mistresses (either Pro-Domme or lifestyle) you have previously served, whether that be in a professional or personal arrangement.
Discretion
This position which will involve being in My home. No turning up outside My front door in full maids attire and scaring My neighbours!
Animal Friendly/Non-Allergic
I have a lovely, friendly (if occasionally yappy!) little dog whom may from time to time need sitting/driving around with Me as part of your duties.
Regularly Available
I am looking for a bitch who can dedicate at the very least weekly time to serving Me. If you can be flexible and available at short notice that is also a huge bonus.

The position of being My personal bitch does not require a tribute, and as a result you are also not guaranteed any 'play'. However, if I feel so inclined you may get some... I do like to reward My bitches good behaviour!

To apply, email [email protected] and include details of duties you would perform/excel at, references and their contact information, availability, whereabouts you are based and any further information you think is appropriate (For clarity, dick pics are never appropriate...)

 

Until next time…

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Foot Worship 101…

Foot Worship 101...

By MistressLolaRuin March 5, 2018

Foot worship is probably the most common fetish. Especially so for Me, as it seems the foot fetishists particularly like tiny little size 2 feet.

Almost every slave who crawls through My dungeon door spends some of his time at My feet. Some will only give each one a small peck to each as a 'Hello', as My protocol dictates. Others may spend hours smothered underneath them.

Regardless, I believe that every serious slave learn how to properly worship the feet of his Dominant. It's a skill which will serve you well in serving Me.

It's no surprise so many people love to worship feet. Even less of a surprise that others love to receive foot worship. The 'somatosenory cortex' of the brain maps out your nerves, with a little section devoted to each body part, and their size relative to how sensitive that body part is. Sometimes, these sections overlap. Look at the right hand side of this image... Notice how in the image above, feet and genitals are right next to each other, overlapping? The science of kink!

I'll let you in on a little secret which may encourage you to improve your 'podolingus'... when a slave is good at worshipping feet, it generally bodes well for what else he may be good at worshipping.

I bet your mind has already wandered, thinking about what you can't have. You can forget it... no amount of toe sucking will elevate you to the role of My sex slave. But now you know, isn't that the thought you want running through My head? That as your tongue runs along My arch, I'm silently making a bet with Myself that you would be great at going down on women? Of course you do. And I promise you, I am not the only Domme who thinks that.

So, before I bestow upon you My top tips for foot worship, let's delve into what you should steer clear of.

  1. No Teeth
    I am rolling My eyes that I even have to say this, but it's true. At no point, ever, do I want to feel your teeth on My feet. I don't care if you manage to cram all 10 of My perfect little toes into your mouth... you better open that jaw wide. Think back to a time when a woman may have used her teeth on your dick. Unless you're a CBT masochist you probably squirmed like crazy, because teeth feel awful. Same goes for My feet. Don't. Do. It.
  2. No Slobber
    Unlike blowjobs, copious amounts of saliva is not hot. I want you to worship respectfully, and that means not drenching Me in your slobber. Of course, a dry mouth is no fun, so you're gonna have to use your brain to figure out the middle ground (good luck!).
  3. No Stubble
    Make your face soft before burying it in My arches. Coarse stubble is at best tickly, at worst scratchy and always distracting.

Those are My own three biggest bugbears when it comes to sloppy foot worship. Now, onto how you can improve...

  1. Start gently
    I drew the comparison between foot worship and pussy eating earlier for good reason... Most men know that diving straight into aggressive cunnilingus is not the best way to please a woman. You want to ease into it, and foot worship is no different. What do you imagine might feel best... someone who immediately crams My entire foot in his mouth, OR someone who traces every curve of them with kisses... then his tongue... then sucks on each of My toes...
    See the difference?
  2. Hands
    Don't let your mouth do all the work. I for one love when My slave also massages My feet whilst worshipping. Always be gentle. Never tug My feet towards you. Remember you are here to please Me, and utilising all you have to do that (including both your mouth and hands) is best!
  3. Worship Equally
    Don't let My other foot get jealous. You have one mouth, and two hands, and so there's plenty to make sure each of My feet are kept happy. Switch between the two regularly. Plant kisses all over one foot, then repeat on the other. I like symmetry 🙂
  4. Pay attention to each of My toes
    Usually slaves are good at this, however it bears repeating. Just as I have 2 feet, I also have 10 toes! Be sure to give every little piggy the attention it rightly deserves. Also, don't neglect that space between them. I love to feel a willing slaves tongue exploring betwixt My toes.
  5. Follow My instructions
    I am vocal about what I like. If I give you any guidance on how best to worship My feet, listen and act accordingly. Do not make Me repeat Myself.
  6. Communicate
    Ask Me what I like, if it feels good, what might feel better. I like when My slaves are willing to learn. Also, whilst I believe some of this blog may be true for other Dommes (no teeth is a universal dislike I imagine), these are only My own personal preferences. Every Domme is different, and you would do well to remember that. Always ask what feels best and what they like. Different strokes for different folks!

Lastly, My biggest tip for foot fetish subs...

Dedicate some time to learning massage techniques!

You wouldn't even have to pay (although you could if you wanted to!). YouTube is full of tutorials. A quick search on 'foot massage' has thrown up over 852,000 results for Me. Some of them are as short as 3 minutes, others go on for nearly an hour.

Take some time to learn foot anatomy and massage technique. Although massage is mostly about hands, I guarantee you such knowledge would improve any worship you do with your mouth too. If you are a foot fetishist, I highly doubt watching these videos would be more of a chore than they would excitable... so you really have no excuse do you?

A slave knowledgeable in reflexology or Thai or Swedish foot massage would impress Me no end. In fact, I don't know of a single Domme who wouldn't love to have a trained foot masseuse at Her beck and call. I am no exception.

Until next time…

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Back to Sessions…

Back to Sessions...

By MistressLolaRuin | February 6, 2018

After an extended break, I am thankfully feeling so much better. I have already returned to sessions, and over the next couple of weeks will be easing Myself back into webcam sessions and filming.

My down time did Me the world of good. Anyone who has also experienced depression could probably agree with Me how difficult it can be to manage. Most of all, I just felt completely overwhelmed and emotionally exhausted.

My work was not at all the cause, but it had become a major cause of stress. Worrying that I wasn't replying to emails quick enough. Feeling anxious that I wasn't filming as much as I should. The level of admin involved in Pro-Domming is huge, and I was falling behind and feeling more burdened by the day.

I did not anticipate the response I got when I announced My break and reasons for doing so. Hundreds of messages of support poured in. I was blown away by how understanding everyone was, and how generous people are when they know you're struggling. If you ever feel like that, don't hesitate to tell those around you... peoples willingness to help will surprise you.

Thank you to everyone who messaged Me during My break. I can't put into words how much I appreciated it.

Now that I am back, I am also making a few changes to My sessions.

Strap-on and Anal Play

Firstly, and probably most exciting to some of you, is the reintroduction of strap on and anal play into My sessions. After a few bad experiences early in My career I decided to take this off My fetishes list. In My personal life I never stopped pegging though, and My enjoyment has been rekindled even more recently. So, for all you anal sluts, I am once again happy to train and violate you this way... 🙂

Same Day Availability

Secondly, I am going to start offering same day sessions, with some caveats. I will need at least 3 hours notice, and I will need a small deposit sent prior to Me travelling into the chambers to see you (unless of course you are a loyal, regular serving slave). I do not want to waste time travelling into the dungeon for no show slaves when I could instead be at home filming, editing or webcamming. For those genuine subs amongst you, I doubt a little gift voucher to prove you are worthy of My attention will deter you.

If you want a same day session, then I suggest calling Me to check I am available. It would still be most helpful if you could fill out My slave application form prior to the start of your session, but perhaps do so after you have already confirmed I can accommodate your session.

Double Domme Sessions

Lastly, I am now offering Double Domme sessions with My dear friend Mistress Pomf! A little about Her in Her own words...

"I am American professional Dominatrix Mistress Pomf. With divine features, a voice like velvet that simultaneously soothes, titillates, and claws into you, and a mind trained in the art of domination, I will leave you floating in the ecstasy of submission. My greatest enjoyment is derived from My expertise in the art of humiliation and mindfucking, although I delight in giving physical punishments to My pain sluts. My style is unpredictable, ranging from brilliant verbals to the eerie power of silence.  I am often described as a sadist with the dirtiest laugh and most devilish smile."

You can find out more about Her on Her own website here...

MistressPomf.com

If you are brave enough to commit to a Double Domme session, get in touch with either of Us to see if We will allow you the chance to serve...

My next blog is going to be a Q&A blog, as I have previously done on Twitter. If you have a burning question you would like to ask Me, feel free to respond on there.

Until next time…
 

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Mistress Lola Ruin is a deliciously kinky Professional Dominatrix. With over 8 years experience, She therefore holds all of Her sessions at a fully equipped playspace in Manchester. She is a truly world class Domme. As one of the finest Dominas in the North West, Mistress Lola Ruin is especially selective about who She allows in Her Dungeon. Read all Her FemDom exploits on Her Blog. Drool over Her gallery of Pro-Domme photos. Read testimonials written by Her loyal slaves. Lola Ruin also loves to visit London to offer Domination sessions to submissives in the capital. Sign up to Her mailing list and be told of tour dates. Domme Lola Ruin loves all kinds of BDSM play, especially adores Ruined Orgasms, Latex and Foot worship fetishes. A well-known Clips4Sale Mistress, She consequently loves to film Female Domination content for Her loyal subs. Request your own custom clip from Her here.

Until next time...

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Make Me Happy…

Make Me Happy...

By MistressLolaRuin September 3, 2016

Today I thought I would write a blog about some of the small ways you can strive to make Me happy.

Little ways to Serve Me...

Some of you blog readers are loyal sessioning and personal slaves. Some of you admire Me from afar through My webcam/phone sessions and clips. Maybe you just come here to perv over My photos whilst you gather up the courage to come and see Me. No matter what your level of servitude or admiration of Me is, here are a few small things you can do to make Me smile...

Realise that My time is precious
Alongside all My real-time/webcam/phone sessions, I also do all My own administration and book keeping. I manage everything to do with My Clips, including filming, editing and uploading to My various stores. My website was completely built from scratch, and is now maintained, by Me. I don’t outsource any aspect of My business… It's almost as though I don't like the idea of giving up control 😉
So, when I am sent a 1000 word ‘introductory’ email, none of which actually specifies how you might like to serve Me, it doesn't get My attention. In all likelihood will get glossed over and ignored so, for your own benefit too, be succinct in your communication to Me. Make it easy for Me to respond to you. 
(This is not to say I don’t like building a relationship with My various slaves. Once you have proven yourself as a worthy submissive, then you will get more of My attention. Until then, keep it respectful, short and sweet.)
Promote Me
Twitter is now the only social media account I have, and if you like what I post then post it onto your own followers. A sweet retweet is a super easy way to make Me smile. Or perhaps you frequent some other social sites or forums. Feel free to recommend Me there too, whether that be for sessions or My video clips. Helping Me to gain more followers and fans is always appreciated.

Latest Twitter Silliness.... Click on the picture to go to My twitter page!


Write a Testimonial
I recently added a Testimonials Page to My website, and some of My most loyal minions have already contributed. If you would like to submit one, please go ahead and email Me one. It doesn't need to be War and Peace... just a paragraph will suffice. My only real tip is to try to talk about your own personal experience. I have read so many reviews which are addressed to the ‘slave readers’ and sound practically like adverts, which I could write Myself. I personally find hearing about what your servitude to Me has done for you personally so much more engaging.
Treat Me
I feel like this blog would be missing the obvious if I didn’t draw your attention to My Wishlist Page. I am not particularly materialistic, but if you enjoy buying gifts for your Goddess then please do feel free to spoil Me. It is always nice to come home from sessions to a surprise Amazon package, or to wake up to an Email Giftcard from an admirer who wanted to treat Me (regardless of how substantial or insubstantial the gift is).
Learn My own Kinks, and Improve
Perhaps if you have read some of My ancient and since long gone blog posts, you will already know how much I love My feet worshipped. This makes it all the more sad when a slave simply slobbers all over them like a dog. After recently gaining an interest in massage, I have already begun writing an entire blog post dedicated to foot worship advice. It’s something I want to research a little more thoroughly before publishing though, so watch this space.
Some other examples... of course, ruined orgasms spring to mind! You can practise them yourself at home (just the thought of you doing that makes Me happy). And of course My love of latex... learn how to properly wash and care for it, then do it for Me. Bliss.

A foot worship blog coming soon...


Listen intuitively and use your initiative
Look for little things you can improve in My life. Immediately offer to help out, or better yet, help out and let Me know once you have. Compile Me a CD of beautiful, session friendly music if you hear Me say I am sick to death of Enigma. Bring Me a new pair of stockings if you notice a ladder in the pair I am wearing. This kind of servitude impresses Me no end. When My slave begins to notice small ways to improve My life, and instinctively does so.

In servitude...

Of all My submissives, My favourites are the ones who do all of the above. These slaves go above and beyond their 'play time' servitude to Me. My career has become more successful as they work hard to make My life easier. They strive to make My life happier in every possible way. They spoil Me completely, and not simply in a financial sense. And I very much enjoy spoiling them in return. My very best submissives get the very best of Me.
Until next time…

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