‘RUIN’ Filmed by Duke

'RUIN' Filmed by Duke...

By MistressLolaRuin | April 26th, 2019

Manchester Dominatrix Mistress Lola Ruin
invites you to take a look behind the scenes of her Duke film, 'RUIN'...

For those of you who haven't heard of Duke or seen his work, he produces the most BEAUTIFUL, erotic promotional videos for sex workers. Ever since I saw his first film a few years ago, I knew I would love to work with him. You can check out some of his films here...

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I decided to finally take the plunge, and book him for a 5 hour video shoot last month.

It began with the spark of an idea I had... A kinky homage to Madonna's 1990 'Justify My Love' music video, which was so sexually explicit it was banned by MTV. Although tame by today's standards, it's scenes of sadomasochism, voyeurism, homosexuality caused quite the stir when it was released in 1990 America. Obviously, it's worth a watch... 😉

Drawing on the storyline of a kinky encounter in a hotel, I also wanted to capture exactly what I am known for... teasing and ruining!

I sent Duke this short outline, along with my music choice, and he immediately responded saying how much he loved it! He advised that a short outline was probably enough to go on for the shoot, allowing us the spontaneity and creativity to play around on the day. We agreed a date, and I booked a beautiful hotel room to serve as our set.

The day arrived, and I checked into the hotel with my submissive. Duke arrived soon after, and whilst I finished getting ready and he set up we discussed the shoot, and which aspects of the Madonna video we liked, in more detail. There was a voyeuristic element we both wanted to capture. We had 5 hours of shoot time, so more than enough to get some beautiful shots.

Then, we began the actual filming. We went through scene by scene. My walking into the hotel with a mysterious suitcase. Meeting my submissive and teasing him before having him on his knees. Lacing him into some beautiful red rope-work. And of course, using my favourite toy to induce my favourite form of torment...

Of course, the day didn't go totally to plan... just after we had filmed the ruined orgasm scene, a deafening loud fire alarm rang throughout the hotel. My poor submissive, tied up in bondage and covered in his own ruined orgasm was suddenly faced with the possibility of heading out to the street assembly point! It did however turn out to be a false alarm, and my slave wasn't subjected to any public humiliation... such a shame 🙂

Beyond that, the shoot was a complete pleasure from start to finish. Duke brought my little spark of an idea to life and turned it into such a gorgeous film which I am so proud to share with all my followers.

For any fellow sex workers reading this blog, I can't recommend Duke highly enough. Putting both my submissive and I at ease right away, he was so welcoming and professional from start to finish. Not to mention, I couldn't be more thrilled with the final film he created for me, which perfectly hits that note of 'tastefully erotic' I was hoping for.

Until next time...

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My Own Personal Playspace…

My Own Personal Playspace...

By MistressLolaRuin | July 9, 2018

Hello all,

It has been a while since My last blog. Hopefully, the following news will go some way to explaining why I have been too busy to write you all. Something incredibly special has been going on behind the scenes, and now I can finally announce it to you all. I will soon be opening My very own personal playspace!

Manchester Mistress Lola Ruin Personal PlaySpace
A sneak peek of My new dungeon in the making...

I have been toying with the idea of having My own dungeon for quite a long time. The time has finally come to take the plunge. As I type now, flooring is being laid, walls are being painted and dungeon furniture is being built. My dream is coming together.

I am so excited to welcome My slaves both old and new into a space which is completely My own vision. And I have so many ideas on how to make this space even more special for both Myself and My devotees.

Both Domestic and Dungeon Settings

The space itself will be separated into two distinct ‘domestic’ and ‘dungeon’ areas. A homely, seating area not dissimilar to a therapists office (oh the roleplay possibilities!), and a more hardcore, traditional dungeon area. After a very clever suggestion by a recent slave, I may also be able to convert a part of that into a ‘rubber clinic’, for those seeking medical play. Whilst this may sound like a mish mash, the entire space will reflect My own personal, sophisticated décor. All the areas will work just as well as one large space as they will separately.

Brand New Fetish Equipment

My collection of equipment is impressive after 7 years as a Professional Dominatrix. However, I am now reinvesting almost every penny into buying brand new toys and torments to subject you lot to! I have already invested in a brand new milking machine (yes, My Venus is still up and running, so I now have two machines to control you with!). Next on the list is a latex vacuum bed, a fucking machine, and an entire range of toys from the incomparable Babes n Horny.

Manchester Mistress Lola Ruin Personal PlaySpace
Currently, My new playspace is filled with far less exciting equipment...

Prolonged, Bespoke BDSM Sessions

However, what I am most excited about is the freedom I will now have in what sessions I can conduct. No longer financially constrained by an hourly rental, I will soon be able to offer creative prolonged play at a more affordable tribute. A few of the ideas I am currently toying with…

  • Prolonged Milking Experiences
  • Extended Confinement
  • Overnight Caging
  • Prolonged Bondage
  • All Day Toilet slavery
  • Extended ‘Servitude/Domestic’ slavery

And, perhaps most exciting of all…


Just as My playspace has yet to be fully revealed, so too are the details of the above sessions. But, I will soon be writing a brand new page of My website dedicated solely to ‘extended’ experiences. This will include full details and their respective tributes. So, keep your eyes peeled.

Lastly, in My excitement, I wish to also acknowledge the dedication of My regular slaves. Those who book sessions with Me, who tribute Me, who commission custom clips and experiences, and the fans who buy My videos. When I compare where I am now to where I was early this year, I feel as though My life and turned around. Your continued support of My career is what has made this all possible.


“The Mistress is not self-made by any means. With her submissive she creates,
she designs,
she imagines, she becomes. It’s a relationship; it’s an exchange.

Though the Mistress is all about power, confidence and control,
she still must give back to her clients who provide the very platform she stands on.”

― T. L. Stone

Manchester Mistress Lola Ruin Personal PlaySpace
A final preview. My boys over on OnlyFans have already been given a full tour of My new chambers. To see more, subscribe to OnlyFans.com/LolaRuin

Should you wish to contribute to My new chambers, you can do so by sending a tribute to mistress@lolaruin.com through either Amazon or DeliveryCode below.

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Until next time…

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