‘RUIN’ Filmed by Duke

'RUIN' Filmed by Duke...

By MistressLolaRuin | April 26th, 2019

Manchester Dominatrix Mistress Lola Ruin
invites you to take a look behind the scenes of her Duke film, 'RUIN'...

For those of you who haven't heard of Duke or seen his work, he produces the most BEAUTIFUL, erotic promotional videos for sex workers. Ever since I saw his first film a few years ago, I knew I would love to work with him. You can check out some of his films here...

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I decided to finally take the plunge, and book him for a 5 hour video shoot last month.

It began with the spark of an idea I had... A kinky homage to Madonna's 1990 'Justify My Love' music video, which was so sexually explicit it was banned by MTV. Although tame by today's standards, it's scenes of sadomasochism, voyeurism, homosexuality caused quite the stir when it was released in 1990 America. Obviously, it's worth a watch... 😉

Drawing on the storyline of a kinky encounter in a hotel, I also wanted to capture exactly what I am known for... teasing and ruining!

I sent Duke this short outline, along with my music choice, and he immediately responded saying how much he loved it! He advised that a short outline was probably enough to go on for the shoot, allowing us the spontaneity and creativity to play around on the day. We agreed a date, and I booked a beautiful hotel room to serve as our set.

The day arrived, and I checked into the hotel with my submissive. Duke arrived soon after, and whilst I finished getting ready and he set up we discussed the shoot, and which aspects of the Madonna video we liked, in more detail. There was a voyeuristic element we both wanted to capture. We had 5 hours of shoot time, so more than enough to get some beautiful shots.

Then, we began the actual filming. We went through scene by scene. My walking into the hotel with a mysterious suitcase. Meeting my submissive and teasing him before having him on his knees. Lacing him into some beautiful red rope-work. And of course, using my favourite toy to induce my favourite form of torment...

Of course, the day didn't go totally to plan... just after we had filmed the ruined orgasm scene, a deafening loud fire alarm rang throughout the hotel. My poor submissive, tied up in bondage and covered in his own ruined orgasm was suddenly faced with the possibility of heading out to the street assembly point! It did however turn out to be a false alarm, and my slave wasn't subjected to any public humiliation... such a shame 🙂

Beyond that, the shoot was a complete pleasure from start to finish. Duke brought my little spark of an idea to life and turned it into such a gorgeous film which I am so proud to share with all my followers.

For any fellow sex workers reading this blog, I can't recommend Duke highly enough. Putting both my submissive and I at ease right away, he was so welcoming and professional from start to finish. Not to mention, I couldn't be more thrilled with the final film he created for me, which perfectly hits that note of 'tastefully erotic' I was hoping for.

Until next time...

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Behind the scenes…

Behind the scenes...

By MistressLolaRuin August 26, 2016

Today I thought I would take you 'behind the scenes' of both My work and play.

Late last week I travelled down to the infamous English Mansion after being invited to a FemDom Garden party, hosted by the wonderful Mistress Sidonia. Also attended by Mistress Evilyne and Mistress Annalieza, We were served and entertained by 5 very lucky subbies (or perhaps you would class them as unlucky considering how cruel all Us ladies are...?)

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With the fabulously wicked Mistress Evilyne and Mistress Annalieza...

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Before the Garden Party was in full swing, with sub sophie

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With Mistress Sidonia, Mistress Evilyne, sub sophie and Mistress Annalieza...

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The Aftermath...


Of course, all of Our antics were captured on video (along with other scenes I filmed whilst there), and will be available on The English Mansion Website soon...

 

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After the garden party I stayed over at the Mansion, then early the next morning rushed off to meet up with My sister at a small yoga festival close by. Outside of Domming I have many vanilla interests of which yoga comes pretty near the top of the list, perhaps this will be a surprise to those of you who think I live in latex and thigh boots!

 

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En route to a rainy festival... PVC perverts rejoice!

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My first class of the festival... can you spot Me?

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Body painting yoga anatomy class...

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Final day of the festival, soothing aching muscles in a hot tub with My sister...


After a night pampering Myself in a hotel, I finally made the long journey back up North to Manchester. Naturally, My slaves there were patiently waiting for My return.

It seems I am very much living by a 'work hard, play hard' motto right now. Not only do I adore My work, I also adore how it allows Me the luxury of being able to take time off to pursue other pleasures.

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One final piece of eye candy, snapped between scenes at The English Mansion...


My downtime is very precious to Me. Being a Domme can be very psychologically draining, especially so when you are also lifestyle like Myself. During very busy periods I have previously been close to burning out, and so I make of point of both limiting the amount of sessions I take per day as well as really 'unplugging' when I take time off. I feel fully focused and present during My time with slaves when I have quality downtime, but it also makes Me feel happier and healthier overall. 

I feel very lucky to have such a great balance in My life. Thank you to all My slaves, submissives and fans for contributing to that 🙂

Until next time…

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